A big transition in life is getting married. An event traditionally surrounded with lots of custom. As time goes though married humans slip more or less quietly into a phase I call Elderlife.
For years married folk have lived as heads of the family they built & along the way they became used to all of the joys & responsibilities of the happiness & care that come with being a family couple.
Being human and being inclusive I refer to the full gamut of mind sets, domineering to co-operative. I refer also to both sexes where the lives our children lead when they too marry depends on their sex.
Though it seems to take place without a lot of Hoopla & Fanfare it appears to me to be often the cause of traumatic problems in the ancestorial life & well worth receiving a regular post here.